Aww that fruit shenanigan between Cole and Zanab. A textbook example of how different viewpoints, expectations, and levels of self-esteem can distort any conversation, each of them believing different things about what was being said. That is why communication is the key in a relationship...
Based on the discussions with the Lacheys and the other constestants, I wonder whether it's Zanab who has been making things up about Cole, or if Cole is lying. But after watching the fruit conversation, maybe neither of them is lying, but understood things differently, and without a retrospective talk, both Zanab and Cole believe they are in the right. They would definitely need some closure to their relationship and talk it through, maybe even with a therapist regardless of whether they want to pursue a romantic relationship yet again.
Just watched the "cuties incident" and Cole did nothing wrong.
Even when she said "I only had a banana & a scoop of peanut butter" he was like "Babe, I offered you food"
She was feeling self conscious & he was thinking save your appetite for tonight.
Instead of running to her girlfriends (who will only negatively reinforce you) she could have just talked to him.
I still stand by my statement that Matt gives off abusive vibes. The way he was hovering over Colleen the whole time, sitting as close as possible. Even when he was talking about what an incredible woman she was, she didn't look happy at all, barely a smile from her the whole episode. There is something seriously off about their relationship.
Zanab and Cole.. what can I say. It's clear that Cole is immature but, Zanab's insecurities are totally skewing her perception. I'm so glad Netflix aired the cuties incident, where you can clearly see Cole has good intentions, telling her that they're eating a big meal later , asking her why she only ate a banana, even offered a poke bowl earlier but she twisted and exagerrated it to everyone that he said 'are you seriously eating all those tangerines later?' according to Alexa. Zanab is delusional, gaslighting the poor man on television, and I'm glad everyone was able to see that. I can't believe nobody stood up for him about the girl's number at the bachelor party, they all took a cop out of 'I was drunk, idk bro' - while Cole is crying on the couch asking for help.
I like that Brennon is supportive asf, but he needs to grow a backbone, a lot of Alexa's bitchiness, while its not necessarily a bad thing to be 'bitchy', it is clearly rubbing off on him.
Whilst I wish they ripped into Bartise more, I'm glad that I never have to watch that man on the screen again.
SK and Raven were so unproblematic, I loved them, I hope they stay together!
Shout by Caro von ChaosBlockedParent2022-11-16T18:02:47Z
Bartise and Zanab are sooooooo problematic. I'm glad Nancy and Cole ditched the bullet.